Always, iena

As long as we are still able to laugh at the same thing
As long as we are still holding hand while sleeping
As long as we are still kissing each other when we met
I know we are still in love
I do love you
..still
and always..

Quote of the Day

"Don't transfer your unhappiness to other people"
I just had a chat with my boss on how moody someone can be -even those that already quite in high level, which should be more mature and professional- and that were the wise word from him.
He really did it -no kidding, even though he said he's still learning- perfectly in my opinion. I never have seen him get mad or emotionally being distracted by something eventhough he had a bad day. Be it when his house was flooding or he had a though time with his boss, never i've seen he put his anger to his subordinates.
When he don't like someone, sometime it's quite obvious. But his professionalism is above  everything. He still talk about work with that person, provide advise shall necessary, but limited talks on personnal things. When he disagree with his boss, he'll say it and provide logic reason. If the boss insisted, he'll say he disagree but he will support. And that's really happened. As long as it's nothing essential.
I don't know how he made it. I'm still learning and i found it not easy. My face expression is too honest, can't really hide anything. I'm still too selfish, when i upset i get mad and it will affect my day somehow.
I think i should keep remaining myself on this quote....

About happiness and LDR

One day, on the way from client office to our office, i was talking with colleagues about international carreer. About how if you'll be sent for overseas assignment, while your spouse, and perhaps your kids, stay here.
Colleague A: That's not life. They must be unhappy if that's happened
Colleague B: You don't define happiness for other people. What it is for you doesn't mean similar with others


That conversation reminds me on my friend case. Her husband has to go overseas for study, around two years. Leaving his wife with his one year baby. With no income, since it was scholarship with very tight budget. One day, i have lunch with her and our other friend
Friend A: It must be hard for you. Why do you let him go?
Friend B: It's hard but i'll be fine. That's his dream and i don't want to stop him.


In other ocassions, i was talking with my husband about a novel, Twivortiare. According to him, the couples in that story always quarrel about trivial things.

Me: Every couple has their own deal, hunny. I don't think you treat your ex differently with the way you treat me (before marriage, of course). But she can't survive, right?
Husband: *nodding and continue washing*


I've been married for three years. I still remember during my wedding interview, i told the video crew that i wish me and hunny can live in the same city, soon. Up to now, it's still not happened, though, but we're fine. We've been trained well for that. And we still thank God for make other things easier for us.


There. The definition of happiness may be different from one person to another, from one couple to another. So i don't listen to others. They may judge but we won't care. We find happiness in each other laughs. Right, hun? ;p

Being Insane Keep Me Alive

Many people told me that i'm too serious facing this life. That i'm weighing more on my work to my presonal life. Well, sorry to say, i am still not in that state, yet. I am quite straight, though. I may work until late in office, but i don't touch work at home or during my weekend and days off. I enjoy my time off, watching Korea until the movie starts watching me back, listening to music with my own voice as background, playing tapfish (no real pets, please), cooking, or just crazily dancing all round the room. There were 'galau' time which makes me stay awake till late (as it is now), and i normally just looking for good song, singing it out loud with all the moves, pretending i am the singer. It was fun, indeed. Btw, don't know why i'm writing this' i think my brain just doesn't work tonite.

Saya dan Laut

I am not a piscescian, or aquariust. But i do love the sea. Very much.
Kebetulan suami saya mantan anak sungai (he spent his childhood in Kalimantan, so swimming is easy piece for him).

We both love to travel. Paling seneng pergi ke tempat-tempat yang punya nilai sejarah, atau ke tempat yang lautnya keren-keren. Sayangnya i prefer snorkle to dive. I just don't like the feeling when you can't easily breathe. Jadi kalau bisa pergi ke tempat yang lautnya keren, bisa snorklingan, dan banyak tempat wisata yang bernilai sejarah, lets called it a perfect place.

So here are some.. 

Pacitan, pantai berbatu

Bohol, Filipina. Still our country is the best

Bunaken, pemandangannya kaya di kalender

Gili, ladies and gentlement, our honeymoon place

And many more!!!
Diantara semuanya, Bunaken dan Gili masih juara sih menurut saya.
Lagi pilih-pilih antara Banda Neira atau Maluku Utara buat this November trip, subject to husband and wallet approval :)