"Don't transfer your unhappiness to other people"
I just had a chat with my boss on how moody someone can be -even those that already quite in high level, which should be more mature and professional- and that were the wise word from him.
He really did it -no kidding, even though he said he's still learning- perfectly in my opinion. I never have seen him get mad or emotionally being distracted by something eventhough he had a bad day. Be it when his house was flooding or he had a though time with his boss, never i've seen he put his anger to his subordinates.
When he don't like someone, sometime it's quite obvious. But his professionalism is above everything. He still talk about work with that person, provide advise shall necessary, but limited talks on personnal things. When he disagree with his boss, he'll say it and provide logic reason. If the boss insisted, he'll say he disagree but he will support. And that's really happened. As long as it's nothing essential.
I don't know how he made it. I'm still learning and i found it not easy. My face expression is too honest, can't really hide anything. I'm still too selfish, when i upset i get mad and it will affect my day somehow.
I think i should keep remaining myself on this quote....
